Detailed sequence of trades and tasks for new owner builder

I doubt there is such a list but you might want to buy yourself a book like "The Australian House Building Manual Book" by Allan Staines.
I don't own this book but I own 3 others in his collection, if this book is not for you there's bound to be other books that could get you at least close to what you are looking for in your locate book store.

sounds like you're out of your league .. by the sounds of this post you might be better off hiring a builder

Most books on building Instructions and details are being replace with new AEC 3D BIM software
The book assumes One size fits all, great if your building the exact House, not so if you deviate from text/image also AS & codes change,etc,etc.
Old books, Plans & Projects require AEC BIM Updating and It's a booming Industry
Here are some other benefits of BIM 3D Software
1.Allows you to Visualise your build, Extract quants ( ie m, m2, m3 ) and Data
Here's an Example of (15 year Old) outdated Architectural BIM Projects to do after handover (AEC BIM )
2.Data and proofs. (Math/Data proofs are universal, everyone is on the same screen)
3. Sequencing, planning & Scheduling now plugs directly into google sheets. MS project is overkill (see Example)
4.Automate changes/updates, checking, costings and Optimisation thru scripts and python connections
5.Don't confuse architectural only BIM with Engineering BIM, the first gives you an image without Data and proofs, mainly used in marketing.It has evolved into the second and is used every day on site by clients, builders and tradies on mobile devices,
The complete AEC BIM (Building Information Modelling) Process is Architectural->Engineering->Construction
when specifying/using BIM Don't stop at architecture, if you do, you won't be getting the best results
Here's an old example of 2S MS Project hth
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1. If you are starting from scratch pick the right software as It costs Time & money to covert any 2D Vector to BIM 3D (Solid Modelling Kernel) into a reliable Format. I suggest if your starting a new project pick Parasolid based BIM, as the next software advancement to come is automated simulations
2.Find Builders & Trades that do..... I get requests everyday from builders/trades for Bim Data and Models on projects, I also receive Cr@p file translations from other Architectural BIM Software and asked to extract data and to do the engineering.The same applies to BIM design as with building a house, If you have sh!t geometry & foundations respectively ..then watch out..
The job becomes a nightmare
3.For Instructions/details I use exploded Iso views with labels and notes
I have a static (thousand details) book on engineering/Construction/Simulations that I take on site along with an ipad
The Interactive 3D view linked to data wins out hands down
4. Cost varies depending on design complexity, data/proofs,Stages, etc
I will put up the roof framework/Details/Quants that a builder/carpenter requested yesterday, cost about $350-$400?
because the brickwork changed.
I have to remeasure,redesign & recalculate the roof Timbers & Cladding for exact ordering quants hth