Hi Di Nosaur, in regards to hasseling... It was mostly the usual, but I also insisted on getting everything in writing 'for my records'. If I spoke to someone on the phone, anything discussed had to be sent to me in an email. This way if things weren't happening or something went wrong I had the written proof.
I also started to cc'd other people in all emails, I would cc my consultant, both pre-start girls and admin, so no one could hide their mistakes or tell me different things. And I would frequently call them out on anything I felt wasn't right, so all four of those email addresses got emails saying my pre-start consultant hadn't replied to my calls/emails for three weeks etc. I'm a strong believer in accountability and I don't like people trying to hide their errors and then it falling back on me.
I also gave specific times I wanted to hear back from them by... At the end of emails I'd put a 'i look forward to your reply by close of business tomorrow' and that kind of thing.
Requested certain issues and discrepancies be bought up with the director or I will be contacting them myself.
I'm sure it's all a little obnoxious, but when you are buying a product which is hundreds of thousands of dollars and affects your whole life and future I think it's ok to act a little obnoxious and entitled if someones screwing you over.
