Skirting, doors and architrave colour?

Help help help!

We have chosen our paint colours - Taubmans Teague (T117-4) and Cafe (T117-3), with the Teague in the front 2 rooms (sitting and master) and the Cafe through the rest of the house. We aren't having feature walls (or not yet anyway) but are trying to decide what colour the door frames, doors, and skirting should be. I have been told all the one colour looks good - because the walls will be a low sheen, and the "woodwork" will be a semi gloss and the texture difference shows up. I have also been told that a 1/2 strength works well - but then seeing as we are having 2 different colours throughout, I would want the doors to match throughout - so do we do a 1/2 of the darker or lighter colour - bearing in mind that Cafe is about 1/2 of Teague.
I have ALSO heard that a double strength (or darker shade) looks good...
My instincts tell me to do them all in Cafe, then where that is the wall colour it will be the same, and where it is Teague it will be about a 1/2 strength...

Any suggestions?
It is so confusing and we want to get it right first time!

Ray.