Bed size for kids
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Currently BOTH our kids sleep in bed with us (yes tragic I know ). DH, being Aboriginal has a belief that the baby should be close to the parents when they are newborn....funny enough DD is nearly 3.5 and hardly new anymore
Hi Bel
We actually had DS1 in our bed for 6 years with DS2 for two. My Health Nurse was all for it and she even gave me literature and books to read about this style of parenting.
DS3 does not sleep in my bed but right next to it in his little port-a-cot. When he is ready, he will move on to his own bed. I sound like a hippy as well
Back to beds... For my boys, king singles as they would much perfer the space in their rooms. There is no way on this earth my DS1 (14 years old) would let any friend share his bed so therefore (as my son said but not in these exact words
My nieces all have doubles so their friends can sleep with them. So...boys King Single, girls double when they become teenagers
Mrs B
With the kids in your bed, what about when you want to be intimate?
For us it is as simple as doing the deed elsewhere or when they are not around. If they are asleep in the bed we have plenty of other places to have some fun - oh and it makes it more interesting to change it up a bit too
Thanks Mrs B - that's what I was thinking, I doubt a teenage boy would share his bed with anyone. I remember my brother had a queen bed and when his friends came over he made them sleep on the floor with no mattress while he had the comfort of his huge bed!
With the kids in your bed, what about when you want to be intimate?
Kids would always fall asleep on the couch...
Mrs B
Actually if you look world wide those of you that don't co-sleep are in the minority, it's actually a recent phenomenon in western countries. Not to knock it, it's what you are comfy with -but we co-sleepers aren't so strange actually!
The sheets are never on special and when they are on special there are never any left. King Single bed sheets also seem to cost more then double or queen bed sheets.
When we move the two boys are going to be sharing the one bedroom with the second bedroom as a playroom. When they get old enough to start complaining about sharing a room then I think I will probally buy 2 queen beds and seperate them. I am planning well ahead, with the thought that the kids are not likely to move out of home until there late 20's (given the projected housing and financial concerns) so they will need the bigger beds for there wives (still discussing g/f's staying over with hubby).
As for co-habitation, the baby is in a cot at the end of our bed (he comes in to bed at the 5am feed and stays till we get up), and the two year old sleeps in a single bed with his 8 year old sister.
With the kids in your bed, what about when you want to be intimate?
Kids would always fall asleep on the couch...
Mrs B
Too true ... thats how hubby fell down the stairs .. taking Miss 6 up to bed after she fell asleep on the couch
Joles you have a point about the intimacy ... we had a fairly ascetic lifestyle there for a while until Amelia moved into her own bed
Its good to know its becoming the norm .. for a while there we literally felt like people from another planet
edit: I never have trouble getting king single or double on special. They usually go on sale like the rest of linen.
I guess you will save money in the long run too, instead of buying a king single like some have suggested then a queen size. I will have a king for my room, and have bought a queen size for one other room, and when the time comes Ill get a bed for a baby and my other room will be a study. I wont be bothering with king singles or single beds, although it does seem a bit silly to have a massive bed in a childs room, but oh well.
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